speaking of school stuff, now I'm looking at the local high school's page to see if it's more like Birdy's or the torture chambers you others are talking about. Can't tell what the general feel is for homework, study hall and such.
One thing I hope to do is praise kids for working hard, not "being smart" or the like. Read about studies showing that kids who are told they are "smart" end up not working as hard because they think they can skate by on smarts alone. Thinking back, I was definitely one of those kids who fell into that and between not having a lot of assistance for high school questions and then getting to college........I had a rough time in a class that I couldn't just "figure it out" but had to work hard to understand what was going on. And, like Birdy, I married up. But don't tell him that.
Though I wonder sometimes, I was pretty good at math til high school. Work with it a lot now and I like the stats side and the relationships you can see between the numbers. Makes me think if I had had a better program in high school that I could have done better in that realm.