I have friends whose kids attend the school I graduated from. They talk about this one teacher who at times will just shoot out the back door to his class room and leave. He appears later in the day with different pants on, sometimes he has stained pants walking around. He is probably late 30s or so. No idea how you have that many bowel issues at that age. Start wearing depends if you know you struggle.She had a coworker go grab them for her once. I was out that day traveling, and it is one of my biggest regrets.