I understand what you're saying but the moment of silence would be the classy thing to do. It would be classy if it were against Baylor and one of their former players (that played recent enough that kids attending ISU probably still remember his name as in Sash's case). Being the game is against Iowa, it is only moreso. Timing is a huge factor here, that it happened during this week and not three weeks ago makes a large difference.
In regards to the Baylor reference, it still would be different. This is a kid that grew up in-state. Attending a home-state school. He was proud to have attended Iowa but he was also proud to be an Iowan. Someone mentioned empathy, and that is what is going on here. These Iowa fans, some of those who will be attending the game on Saturday and personally knew him, may still be grieving. These could be your coworkers, your neighbors, your friends, your family. They could be strangers. But if you are from this state, you should know that even in the larger cities people band together with one another when tragedy happens. The rivalry is one thing and I give plenty of **** on here and expect plenty of **** back, but I would not wish anything remotely close to this on someone and I acknowledge what others may be going through in such a time. If the tables were turned, I would prefer Iowa to give a moment of silence for an ex-ISU player who just passed away.
I understand what you're saying in essence. But there is absolutely no way in this matter that you will not come across as a ****. If the powers that be at ISU recognize him with a moment of silence, that is very classy. If they do not, I don't think any Iowa fans are expecting or should be expecting it. But there is no reason in my opinion that this particular debate should be carrying on for multiple pages. While you may not agree with a moment of silence if it does happen, it doesn't mean that you need to make a large ordeal out of it. Let there me the moment of silence, then go back to cheering for your team.
There's no need to make a big deal out of this. Just be respectful of others in times like this.