Why do you think they only options are single family houses on .25 acres or high-rise apartments? the house I grew up on was .08 acres with a corner store, Subway, and Walgreens down the block. We walked their all the time. A public park was down the street if we wanted to go ice skating or play soccer - we didn't need a massive backyard for those things. Everyone should be allowed to move where they want but it's foolish to think there are only two options (in the suburbs there usually is only two options, though). Also don't be fooled into thinking your 100' of road frontage can be supported by your property tax. It's subsidized by new development in a giant ponzi scheme.
.08 acres??? You could open your bedroom window and jump in the house next door. Would be great if she was cute.