Some of my family is coming into KC in a few weeks. It's sorta impromptu. The issue is that we take so damn long to make the simplest decisions that if plans aren't made, a ton of time is wasted discussing things and trying not to hurt anyone's feelings. The last few times this has happened, I've had to take the reins to organize events, meals, church, etc.
I'm trying to get out ahead of things this time and get a good head count, arrival times and departure times so I can chip away at it. I sent out an E-mail asking people to reply to all so I didn't have to deal with a bunch of side conversations and piece it all together.
First sister chimes in. "Here's when we leave, daughter won't be with us, here's when we leave." Cool.
Second sister (one that also lives in the KC area and could help) chimes in - only to me. "Here's my opinion about some of the things you listed and why certain things won't work. And no, I didn't want to offer any alternatives, I'm just voicing my complaints."
I'm resisting the urge to copy/paste her E-mail and reply to all with my reply.