I for one agree with you. As coach, KJ can't control everything and it's just not possible to instill those types of traits into a wrestler.... you're either born with them or you're not. I don't follow ISU wrestling all that closely but it's my understanding that this team may be missing some of those qualities you mention above.
Grit, heart, toughness and determination? From what I hear, one of the teams top wrestlers rarely sees the mat. Instead of wrestling through nagging injuries for the good of the team, he'd rather take days off unless it's against inferior opponents. Like I said, I don't follow them that closely or even know who the wrestler is but if that's true, what's KJ to do? You also speak of motivation. I'm told there's a member of the team that doesn't particularly care what happens until those post season tourneys come around. Tells the fans to stay home as if duals mean nothing. If the kid can't be motivated until the post season, should the blame really go to KJ? where's this kids desire and that obsession for winning that you speak of?
As for pride, I'll disagree and feel having too much of that could actually be a bad thing. I've heard rumors that one member of the team has so much pride that he's played around on social media talking as if he's one of the sports all time greats. Also heard one of his family members posts on these forums making the same claims and apparently has no trouble alienating his teammates as if they are not worthy to be on the same team. Again, if any of this is true then I just shake my head in disbelief.
So yes, you make some valid points and some of the others here should try to understand what you are trying to convey. Sounds like some of those boys are missing quite a few intangibles to be successful. As for that last comment, I'll say that's probably unfair to the team and it's wrestlers. I'm sure even those junior league Golden Ring Panthers had a few that just weren't motivated to succeed. Ok, maybe not a few but I'd bet the house they had at least ONE that maybe didn't possess those traits you say are missing from this years squad. No doubt the coach of those Golden Ring Panthers had to deal with that same type of wrestler that doesn't have the entire package and one KJ deals with on a daily basis.