I don't understand why you are so concerned, and Grayer obviously is not. It's his career and legacy, not yours. He is the one with something to lose. Not you. Why do you care so much??
*prepares himself to speak to someone who obviously doesn't have a complete grasp of what's going on around him*
Me like Grayer. Grayer good person. Me remembers Grayer fondly as a Cyclone. Me even ride elevator with Grayer few times, and Grayer always pleasant to me. If me have any say in matter, me want Grayer to succeed as a coach; but me sad if Grayer come to ISU now, because he not succeed here working for Mr. Integrity. Me be sad if Grayer's career suffer because he want to help ISU play more better.
You understand?