Say you're new to town. Prom is coming soon.
You meet a girl and get along with her great. She is a little overweight, but not enough to make it a deal-breaker in your mind.
She asks you to go to Prom with her, and you say you are interested.
On Monday, you go to school and tell some people about your invitation to Prom. They immediately start calling the girl "Moby ****" and emphasize all her failed relationships in the past.
After reflecting on their feedback, are you still interested in going to Prom with her? Do you trust your initial instincts or are you influenced by these third-party reports?
Message boards matter. Obviously, the best course of action is to lose the extra pounds next year so the problem goes away, but that doesn't help in getting a date this spring.
You're saying shes overweight, but not too overweight, and she has many failed relationships. However, if she just loses a few pounds, everything is fixed, and she will no longer fail in relationships?