Jesus dude that's not an isolated incident. In so many of these allegations he was brought up as one of the main constituents. You obviously want to break each one down and take each at face value in order to downplay his overall play in this whole thing.
And YOU are the one taking these statements at face value. To my knowledge, the only specific instances I have seen Brian accused of are (1) the Wadley incident, and (2) calling a player’s tattoo dumb. (1) is racially insensitive at best, racist at worst, and is inappropriate either way. (2) is nothing. You are asserting as fact that Brian is one of the main issues here, despite there being little evidence to support that other than vague statements from former players.