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Wow state, that is a classic blame the accuser mentality. Sorry, that is how I read the post. (My apologies if I am wrong)

There are so many shades of grey and so many points of misinformation on either side of this issue.

Let me start by saying I have my opinions but do not know what really happened and nor what the full truth is. At this point very few do and they may not agree!.

I have challenges with those on either end of the spectrum:
-Free Bubu, Leath is wrong.
-Hang Bubu high.

However, the biggest challenge I have on this forum on the those who are not open to listening to the each other, and above all the massive level of ignorance on legal issues and university policy issues.

From my personal experience I only know 2 things for certain.

1. Something happened that evening.

2. Leath and Pollard (who have seen things none of us will likley see about this) are comfortable in their decisions. They can sleep at night feeling they feel they made a right decision (I am speaking of how they feel personally.)

Was the decision right or wrong? Personally I have know way of answering that. However, I do feel those that throw either side under the bus should just step back and see what happens as this now plays out.

Just my thoughts.
This would be one thing if it was truly controversial. The thing is everyone outside of the school (they deal with these things regularly) has either found him innocent (or not guilty).

I feel like there is overwhelming evidence to say he is innocent. It's also better to side on the basis of innocence. It's much worse to have innocent people mistakenly convicted than to have guilty people go free. Those guilty people will get what they deserve at some point.
 
This would be one thing if it was truly controversial. The thing is everyone outside of the school (they deal with these things regularly) has either found him innocent (or not guilty).

I feel like there is overwhelming evidence to say he is innocent. It's also better to side on the basis of innocence. It's much worse to have innocent people mistakenly convicted than to have guilty people go free. Those guilty people will get what they deserve at some point.

I think a lot of people are overlooking the fact that just Bubu picking a girl up with another guy and those two people hypothetically having consensual sex with that girl and that getting out to the media is enough of a "bad look" for the university that the AD and President would want to distance themselves from that player.

Add on top of that the girl accuses him of rape, and (innocent or not) the best thing for PR is to distance yourself as much as you can.
 
Honest question: If a man and a woman are each drunk, and have relations, what happens if there is a question whether it was consensual? Can either claim they were forced into it, or is it assumed men can only have sex if they consent?
 
I would have no argument with that recommendation.
However, that assumes full cognitive abilities.
I am guessing this could be murky as well.
Again, I cannot in good conscience give make I final conclusion where I stand on this.
I have opinions, but I would be a fool if I said I had enough information to determine innocence or guilt.


This should be the answer, and then the whole thing dies off.
Instead, we have presidential conspiracies and people crying about a scholarship taken away from the team.
 
Honest question: If a man and a woman are each drunk, and have relations, what happens if there is a question whether it was consensual? Can either claim they were forced into it, or is it assumed men can only have sex if they consent?

I'd like an answer to this as well.

If a drunk guy calls a sober girl for a ride and he ends up having sex with her and her sober friend how would he be received the next day if he claimed they raped him?
 
I think when the woman tampered with the evidence told me enough right there. Plenty more things we all don't know but just seems like she may have thought the case was a little weak and decided to tear her shirt to cast little doubt. There are no winners here.
 
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This should be the answer, and then the whole thing dies off.
Instead, we have presidential conspiracies and people crying about a scholarship taken away from the team.
The timing of the student policy decision causes a lot of consternation when he had all summer and made his pivotal move only one week after the deadline. Smells fishy. Maybe the threats of suing by Mom happened just after the deadline for the scholly to be revoked on purpose. After all, Bubu played an awful lot of ball the season before after the transgression with the approval of Jamie, Fred, and Leath. I tend to think the accuser and not Leath picked the timetable to drop the hammer, knowing what would happen. The fallout from student policy is a story by itself. Other similar situations did not invoke student policy. Why let him keep the scholly in any case if the student policy had been broken for such a serious offense. One thing mentioned little is potential for Bubu to be marked for life as a sex offender. This is serious stuff.

As Shakespeare wrote, something smells rotten in the state of Denmark.
 
The timing of the student policy decision causes a lot of consternation when he had all summer and made his pivotal move only one week after the deadline. Smells fishy. Maybe the threats of suing by Mom happened just after the deadline for the scholly to be revoked on purpose. After all, Bubu played an awful lot of ball the season before after the transgression with the approval of Jamie, Fred, and Leath. I tend to think the accuser and not Leath picked the timetable to drop the hammer, knowing what would happen. The fallout from student policy is a story by itself. Other similar situations did not invoke student policy. Why let him keep the scholly in any case if the student policy had been broken for such a serious offense. One thing mentioned little is potential for Bubu to be marked for life as a sex offender. This is serious stuff.

As Shakespeare wrote, something smells rotten in the state of Denmark.

Except that it's been well reported that this delay never happened. All parties agreed ahead of time to wait until a scheduled trip to Africa was completed. That's not some purposeful "screw the basketball program" delay. It's a weak argument at best.
 
Except that it's been well reported that this delay never happened. All parties agreed ahead of time to wait until a scheduled trip to Africa was completed. That's not some purposeful "screw the basketball program" delay. It's a weak argument at best.

Then you say instead stupidity reigned in this case at the AD, the President, and bball. If this is true, then ISU group was not too smart. I find it hard to believe that, if that was the agreement initially to wait until deadlines passed, that something happened at the end to change the final decision. That was more than likely to protect against a lawsuit threat. Any other explanation seems to make ISU look inept. Deadlines were known all along.

"Say Fred, I plan to make my decision after my important African trip and after the scholly deadline. Hope you don't mind."

Yeah, sure.
 
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The university's number one priority is to its students. If a student files a complaint of sexual misconduct, it's up to the university to try to provide a safe environment and prevent future sexual harassment, assault, or rape. These decisions are not completely about convicting and punishing somebody (we have a legal system for that). I'm not saying it's a great system, but it's the reality that universities face today and whether the purported misconduct was between two members of the university makes a huge difference. I will say I find Leath's decision very bizarre to deem Bubu could remain a student but not participate in sports.

This. How did he make ISU and the girl safer by only removing him from the bb team?
 
The timing of the student policy decision causes a lot of consternation when he had all summer and made his pivotal move only one week after the deadline. Smells fishy. Maybe the threats of suing by Mom happened just after the deadline for the scholly to be revoked on purpose. After all, Bubu played an awful lot of ball the season before after the transgression with the approval of Jamie, Fred, and Leath. I tend to think the accuser and not Leath picked the timetable to drop the hammer, knowing what would happen. The fallout from student policy is a story by itself. Other similar situations did not invoke student policy. Why let him keep the scholly in any case if the student policy had been broken for such a serious offense. One thing mentioned little is potential for Bubu to be marked for life as a sex offender. This is serious stuff.

As Shakespeare wrote, something smells rotten in the state of Denmark.

wrong.
 
If you weren't surprised that Leath would reverse the ALJ decision and boot BuBu after he had played the last half of his junior year, you should have warned BuBu so he could have transferred and also told Fred so he could have got another scholarship player he could actually play.

I was saying you're wrong about sitting on the case when it's publicly known that the parties agreed to the time table. Stop looking for conspiracy theories. I can't wait for this to be over with.
 
Given the numerous Bubu threads, and the number of postings on each thread, the following remain pretty much true. People posting here do not know 1) what happened that night, 2) what evidence, if any, existed other than that which was tainted, 3) why the prosecutor decided to drop the case, 4) why Leathe made the decision he did, and who had input into that decision, and 5) why the BofR made the decision they did and who had input into that decision. But that hasn't stopped all the supposition and guessing that has filled these threads. If there was ever a reason why our judicial system and the judicial branch must be protected from the influence of social media, this is it. I would hate to be on the wrong side of the law - or even the right side of the law - but be on the wrong side of social media.
 
Bubu threads go through the same cycle of misinformation every time something new happens.
 
Never mind the fact this girl lied, they have also had relations in the past, and Bubus name has always been upstanding prior. I guess it's just easier to blame the man for your regrets.

Yup. It never happens that men rape women the have relations with before. Never.

Apparently if you ever have sex with someone you are supposed to have sex with them forever whenever they want and whatever they want to do to you.
 
I think a lot of people are overlooking the fact that just Bubu picking a girl up with another guy and those two people hypothetically having consensual sex with that girl and that getting out to the media is enough of a "bad look" for the university that the AD and President would want to distance themselves from that player.

Add on top of that the girl accuses him of rape, and (innocent or not) the best thing for PR is to distance yourself as much as you can.

You can boot someone from a basketball team for whatever happened. Absolutely. But if its clearly not a slam dunk case legally you don't stick the knife in you want as clean a break as possible for those same reasons (PR.) Along with the fact that as an educator if you are punishing a student drastically and to this extent there is an inherent responsibility to act in the best interests of the student in terms of them moving on and using their mistake as a learning experience.

I see an ego maniac president making a bold decision to boost his own ego with the way things went down whereas if it was handled properly it would have just been strong leadership.
 
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I continue to find it asinine to several months in the future set a date of decision one week after schollies are irreversible. Either this was shoved down Fred's throat despite the deadlines as it was a way to give Bubu a scholly and not be on the team and hope no lawsuits followed or the Fred bball people thought Bubu would be able to play.
 
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