I would hardly call myself wishy washy. I know what things I believe in and I don't feel the need to go out and tell others they are wrong because they don't believe what I do. I also was able to make decisions on what I believe myself, I didn't need to go to church every week and have someone tell me what I should believe.
I went to church growing up like many on here because that's where our family went on Sundays. As I went through college I investigated other faiths and came to the conclusion that being a Christian was what I believed in. I go to church to hear how to be a better Christian by living according to God's ideals...I haven't gone to a church that tells me what I should believe. All the churches I've gone to have helped me interpret the Bible. You seem to think that independence & Christianity don't mix but they do. I independently made the decision to be a Christian and abide by God's principles.
