Sleep Question

I had been doing this for awhile, and was CONSTATNLY tired during the day. Went and did a sleep study, had SEVERE sleep apnea. Got a CPAP yesterday, and last night was the best sleep I've had in probably 2 years.

For those with CPAP, what was the final kick to get you to the doc to get checked out? I gained weight a few years ago and didn't snore prior. My energy is lower, but I also don't exercise like I used to. Snoring is my chief complaint (well, for my wife)...
 
Im a terrible sleeper in new environments. First night at a hotel and I’m lucky to get 3 hours of sleep. Now I pop a 10 mg indica gummy about an hour before bedtime and I sleep like a brick. I am a little groggy in the morning, but coffee fixes that. Beats the hell out of being exhausted the entire next day.
 
For those with CPAP, what was the final kick to get you to the doc to get checked out? I gained weight a few years ago and didn't snore prior. My energy is lower, but I also don't exercise like I used to. Snoring is my chief complaint (well, for my wife)...
For me - it was always being tired, to the point of dozing off when just sitting watching TV with my kiddo or even watching the game, and hearing from people that I would stop breathing when I dozed off.
 
Could be sleep apnea.. I was diagnosed with it and had no idea. I’d try melatonin to see what f that helps..
I will double this. I was diagnosed in 2012. I never felt like I was getting a good nights sleep even though I was training for an Ironman Triathlon. I was having +10 episodes every hour and never got into a deep REM sleep. Took a while to get used to the CPAP, but sleep GREAT!!! If I feel restless I will take some Melatonin about an hour prior to bedtime.
 
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I had been doing this for awhile, and was CONSTATNLY tired during the day. Went and did a sleep study, had SEVERE sleep apnea. Got a CPAP yesterday, and last night was the best sleep I've had in probably 2 years.
What does the sleep study consist of?
 
I am a terrible sleeper apparently, I would say 98% of the time I wake up at some point during the night for 10 minutes to an hour.

I had assumed this was normal my whole life. But last night I asked my wife if she woke up every night, and she said no, and most of the time she sleeps until her alarm goes off. This was literally flabbergasting to me.

Is this true for most people here, that you sleep all the way through the night without waking up at some poin

If kids aren't involved and age isn't, then most often no. Something is off with your REM/circadian rhythm. Usually you can implement a few good practices to help. They say there are two different versions, I'd have to find the study, bc I'm basing this off of memory. But those who struggle to fall asleep, or those who wake up later on and struggle to stay asleep.

Good practices: try to not do blue light before bed or tv if can manage. set phone to night time setting. read instead. I take a ZMA about 45 min to an hour before bed. This usually helps me fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. Problem is sometimes it can make you go to the bathroom or make you dehydrated too. I don't take the recommended dose of 3 capsules a night. I do 1, and also take this Vit D3/K2/Mag supplement too. If I've struggled or need, I sometimes take unisom gummies (natural stuff) but try not to get too routine with it. Different magnesium sources have different absorption rates. You'd be amazed how different you'd feel as magnesium is responsible for a lot of biological processes in the body and helps improve sleep and so much more. Adults usually do not get enough mag from food alone, so supplementing it helps. The added zinc would help with your immune system too.

So something is messing with your normalcy. If it's stress, too much liquid, blue light, etc, it wouldn't hurt to switch things up. I have not read any others responses on here, so I'm sure there are good ones too. My sleep usually sucks because I have a night owl 2 year old that we co-sleep with because he won't go to his own bed. So we switch off with him and don't really get consistent sleep. When I sleep in the other room I hardly ever wake up in the middle of the night.

Also, a form fitting pillow helped me out a lot. You may be a side sleeper or back sleeper, but sometimes that can have an impact too. Maybe give Matt Walker a follow as he talks about sleep a lot.

Those are my suggestions, hopefully something helps and you get some consistency with your sleep!
 
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When I'm in the same bed with my wife, I usually get up 1-2 times a night to go to the bathroom and it'll take me 5-60 minutes to fall asleep each time. When one of us sleeps in the guest room due to one of us is sick or snoring, I sleep mostly through the night and wake up 0-30 minutes before the alarm goes off.

Edit: As for being a parent, my kids are in that sweet spot of upper elementary school where they'll go to bed hours before us and if they'll wake up early, they're quiet and independent enough to play games or watch TV on their own (as long as they're not fighting.)
 
For those with CPAP, what was the final kick to get you to the doc to get checked out? I gained weight a few years ago and didn't snore prior. My energy is lower, but I also don't exercise like I used to. Snoring is my chief complaint (well, for my wife)
Age---I didn't sleep well for 30-40 years. Thought waking up at three, four or five o'clock was normal for me. I would wake up and stay up. But I couldn't take it anymore, I was shot at 4 in the afternoon. Blamed it on anxiety. Between 9 and 10 most nights to bed and sleep to between 5 and 6 am now.
 
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10 minutes of watching some old tv show I've seen before puts me out like a tranquilizer until morning alarm. Original Star Trek is a favorite. Usually just barely awake enough to turn power off. I laugh when I read all these "don't watch TV before bed" because to me it's the way I put myself to sleep.

Sympathize with people who have babies/toddlers. For about 18 months the 3 shelter dogs we adopted were constantly waking us up but now almost 6 months where they are fine and hardly ever have to go out at night.

I camp/hike a lot and when I sleep outside I do wake up every 2 hours but I think it's more about the mattress/ground than anything with my health. Takes me about 10-15 to get back to sleep, do that cycle about 4 times.
 
I gave birth five times. All five had melons for head size, all over 95th percentile. If I don’t get up to pee at least once a night, I am probably dead.

Husband says he is sensitive to any kind of light when trying to sleep so the place is pretty pitch black as I stumble to the bathroom.
 
I am a terrible sleeper apparently, I would say 98% of the time I wake up at some point during the night for 10 minutes to an hour.

I had assumed this was normal my whole life. But last night I asked my wife if she woke up every night, and she said no, and most of the time she sleeps until her alarm goes off. This was literally flabbergasting to me.

Is this true for most people here, that you sleep all the way through the night without waking up at some point?

Some would argue that your sleep pattern is the way humans were meant to be.


It helped me sleep better after reading the 2006 blog post linked below, which links to a NY Times article -- by someone who wrote a book on the topic (At Day's Close: Night in Times Past).

Like you, I often wake up in the middle of the night, typically for more than 10 minutes.

In the olden days, not only would limited indoor lighting have mattered, but also limited outdoor lighting -- like in deciding whether you went out after dark. It's almost the time of year when it's easy for me to go to sleep as soon it gets dark, but the issue was that I wouldn't sleep through the night. I considered it a sleep disorder, not good.

After reading the article below, I might read -- maybe even getting up to do something else during that time -- use it productively, and then go back to sleep. No big deal.

Until the modern age, most households had two distinct intervals of slumber, known as "first" and "second" sleep, bridged by an hour or more of quiet wakefulness. Usually, people would retire between 9 and 10 o'clock only to stir past midnight to smoke a pipe, brew a tub of ale or even converse with a neighbor.​
Others remained in bed to pray or make love. This time after the first sleep was praised as uniquely suited for sexual intimacy; rested couples have "more enjoyment" and "do it better," as one 16th-century French doctor wrote. Often, people might simply have lain in bed ruminating on the meaning of a fresh dream, thereby permitting the conscious mind a window onto the human psyche that remains shuttered for those in the modern day too quick to awake and arise.​
Why was I not informed of this earlier? Not only is this supremely interesting, but is it also useful. I often wake up after an interval of "first sleep," but I've never thought of it as anything but a problem ...

Also from the NYT article:
The principal explanation for this enigmatic pattern of slumber probably lies in the nocturnal darkness that enveloped pre-industrial households -- in short, the absence of artificial lighting. There is a growing consensus on the impact of modern lighting on sleep. The Harvard chronobiologist Charles A. Czeisler has aptly likened lighting to a drug in its physiological effects, producing, among other changes, altered levels of melatonin, the brain hormone that helps to regulate our circadian clock.

In fact, during clinical experiments at the National Institute of Mental Health, human subjects deprived of light at night for weeks at a time exhibited a segmented pattern of sleep closely resembling that related in historical sources (as well as that still exhibited by many wild mammals). ...
For experts like Dr. Thomas Wehr, who conducted the experiments at the National Institute of Mental Health, some common sleep disorders may be nothing more than sleep's older, primal pattern trying to reassert itself -- "breaking through," as Dr. Wehr has put it, into today's "artificial world." ...
 
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What does the sleep study consist of?
They hook you up at bedtime, or you do at home and basically they see how you sleep. I went to the hospital for mine, I had two beers and a Tylenol PM before I went, wife drove me, read my kindle until about 9:30 they hooked me up and I went to sleep. They woke me about 11:20 and said we are putting the CPAP on you because you have had like 60 events. Events is what they call sleep disturbances. Now I have two to seven events a night. On the mask went and I slept right through for the rest of the sleep study. I had everything hooked up in a week after the study because they adjusted the machine while I was there and using it the first night.
 

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