A lot of things can influence this and everyone makes decisions based on what’s best for their family and their kids. No different than taking a different job and moving schools. Is he going to be 20 when he graduates now? 19? When is his birthday? All kids mature at different stages and parents have the right to do what’s best for them. The problem is everyone always thinks they know what’s best for everyone else. Social media allows people to be more judgmental and have the expert opinions.
i see your side , while I don't agree with the premise that it's the same as taking a job or moving
those decisions are made by adults for the betterment of their life and or the life of the family they are a part of -
now again - if this is due to academic reason's - then there is zero debate
however, if Soley for athletic gain - you may remember a multi time NYS champ Steveo Poulin
he too stayed back due to size, and he was an honor student
plenty of young athletes are too small to compete or make an instant impact on their HS team
you make the most of the time you get -
some may have more time than others - so what that is life
shame on the school for knowingly allowing this and the parents for circumventing the rules
while they are not the first and they won't sadly not the last
i will simply end with this
to hold a child back Soley for athletic purposes is wrong plain and simple