wedding update. They invited my mom dress shopping. Sounds like one of those cringey episodes of SYTTD with the mom who has her vision of what the daughter should wear and ignores anything the bride wants.
Kept wanting the daughter to try on tight, mermaid styles. Daughter clearly looked self-conscious and uncomfortable in them. Tried on a ballgown type (at my mom's suggestion of trying something "different") and seemed to love it, but the mom was like, "but you (I) like these mermaid types." They had her try on a sale rack dress that was way too small and daughter was all about how she was going to and needed to lose weight.
My mom found out later that the morning of, there had been a squabble about the daughter not doing enough chores around the house and how she needed to lose weight. The day she goes dress shopping. No wonder she wasn't thrilled about skin-tight dresses.
The daughter does not need to lose weight, and even if she needed to lose 150 ******* pounds, you do not say any **** like that and especially not before dress shopping. Unsurprisingly, she hasn't found anything yet. I'm still feeling so much rage about this and wish I could slap the mother. Goddamn.