I think if you're an adult and have your **** together, asking friends/family to help you move is a bit of a **** request IMO.
No one wants to dedicate their weekend to helping you move. Like the prior posters said, hiring a moving company like 2 men and a truck isn't that expensive.
Eh, speak for yourself. I'm happy to volunteer to help friends move whenever I can (including using my truck). I see it as a day hanging out with friends, having some beers, and helping them way more than some ****** housewarming present would.
I also fix stuff around my house, clean my own stuff, mow my own grass, etc. Some people prefer to pay someone else to do that, some of us would rather use the money for other things.