I read through to page 6 and skipped the rest. LOL. But now I'll definitely be making some of my own observations when we're in MN.
We're moving up to the TC area (Otsego) in May. The development we'll be in does not have an HOA and I plan to proudly display our Cyclone flags. We've talked about attending a Gopher football game during an ISU away weekend. And (even though we're Chiefs fans) attending a Vikings game or two. A hockey game is definitely something we'll go to. Neither of us are huge baseball fans, but it appears quite a few MN are. Otherwise, a fishing pontoon and lake trips are on our agenda. And...FWIW, we lived up here for 3 years in the late 80's....so we're fully aware of what the winters are like.
We moved to Pella in 2018 and had heard for YEARS how Pella people were unfriendly, "if you ain't Dutch, you ain't much" and they have excessive restrictions throughout the community. Our experience has been the complete opposite. Everyone has been great. People are very friendly and welcoming. You CAN mow on Sunday. Different areas of the city have HOAs and it sounds like each is slightly different. I can totally understand some of the ordinances the city has. The city and a majority of the residents take pride in their community and how it looks.
When we move to Otsego, we plan to do the same thing we did here. Sit in our driveway and say "hi" to neighbors that walk by. Set out a couple extra chairs so they can stop and chat. Fix some brisket and pulled pork and invite the neighbors over for a cookout.