I just don't believe that marriage is a government institution, nor should it be. The church establishes the validity of marriage, not the government. The government merely uses it to determine which tax deductions to give you, and to collect fees from the process.Good answer on the marraige thing. I was interested in how you would defend support of it using your right infringing on me.
In general, I think an ammendment defining marraige between a man and a woman is one of the craziest things out there right now. I think the problems is the use of the term 'marraige' by the government. I think the government should define a civil union I believe both gay and hetero couples should get the same civil union rights. I believe marraige in the spirtual sense should stay out of the government. If a church wants deny marraige's in the spiritual sense, the government shouldn't get involved. The whole government debate should be based only on government ideas. I really have a problem with those that would give gay couples the same rights as hetero couples, but call it civil unions instead of marraiges. At least the ones that want to deny civil unions are making the government argument and not the religious argument.
Think if this kind of thing was used for a interracial marraiges. "Well we're going to give you the same rights and benefits as a same race couple, but you guys are going to have a 'civil union' while the same race couple has a 'marraige'." That would be outrageous.
I also hate the arguments that if gay marraige's are allowed, the typical hetero marraige will be ruined. So my parents are going to get a divorce it John and Tim get hitched? When Joe asks Sally to marry him, Sally will say "Well Joe, a few days ago I would have gladly said yes, but now that the government says I can marry Sue, I'm going to do that." Get real. Also, the notion that we should define it as a man and a woman is the best situation to raise kids. I agree that on the whole, that is probably true. But there are plenty of situations that are just tough on kids. Should divorce, having a child out of wedlock, having an interracial marraige all be made illegal? Of course not. The real reason people have an issue with gay marraige is they think is creepy and want to shun those people. Well it kinda creeps me out as well but thats not a reason to make people in those situations lower class citizens.
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