That may be true if you compare buying a new car, then selling it and buying another new car in only 2-3 years vs. a lease. If you compare buying a car that is a few years old, then selling it and buying another nearly new or new car vs. either of the other options you are probably going to come out ahead just due to the reduced amount of depreciation.
That said, I know having new cars is important to some people and that's fine. It may not be the "optimal" financial decision but as long as you are aware of the costs and willing to accept that then I don't have an issue with it.
Absolutely. That last paragraph is precisely what car purchasing is all about. It’s kinda like I probably don’t need to go to Maui for a week, but damnit it’ll be fun when I’m there (I’m not going to Maui btw, but I wish I were).