You are the one who appears to be obsessed with Iowa. I choose to keep my focus on the cyclones and don't really care too much about what Hawk fans are saying or doing. In fact, the only time I hear anything about the hawkeyes is when I am visiting Cyclone Fanatic.
Best of luck coping with your insecurities. It has nothing to do with the team you cheer for as I imagine you would be posting about the cyclones a hawkeye forum if you were a hawk fan.
No hate for you at all. I want to see you get better.