My father was never accused of being a workaholic and sitting around Turkey Day at his side of the family hearing about how bad things were wasn't my cup of tea. He could've got an actual job, but there wasn't Tivo and General Hospital was right in the middle of the afternoon, so that would've been tough.
We live in the US and people can literally do an infinite number of things to increase their income or decrease out go in order to put 10% of their income into retirement, yet so few do, so I have zero sympathy for anyone. I'm scared I'm turning into a Republican frankly.
Still friends?