Same here. The culture, lifestyle, daily interactions, etc. is all so much different in the city than the suburbs. It's a completely different situation. The reason this bugs me is because our childhoods had nothing in common with those who grew up in a car-centric suburb. Familial roots go back over 100 years in my neighborhood whereas some cities didn't even exist 10 years ago. The city is a place to experience and the suburbs are a place to live. They each have their advantages and disadvantages but that's why it bugs me. Don't try to claim something authentic and with history as your own when you've specifically chosen to not live there for various reasons.
I agree with you mtown. People who live in different places value different things, and generally speaking, I feel like you can learn a lot from somebody by knowing where they live.