You can also be a feisty competitor without flopping around and showing up the refs every time down the court.
It's part of the game and has been for as long as star players have existed in basketball. Selling fouls when you feel contact is taught in high-level basketball now. You may as well get used to it.
What's funny to me is anyone on a non-biased, national scale doesn't seem to have an issue with the way she plays. I don't see some sentiment from non-Iowa State fans that her complaining is over the top or that she's a "bad role model". I gauruntee if she played for Notre Dame or something you'd have no issue with it.