Just playing Devil's Advocate for a sec:Ranking the most dysfunctional meetings in America with the least agreement and/or meaningful consensus:
1) Pac-12 Media Deal Discussions
2) The Cave
3) Big 12 Replay Reviews
4) Congress
5) Divorce
(edit: sorry about reminding you of #3)
Any school that REALLY wants to avoid ending up in the Big 12 just needs to ask Brett Yormark what our officiating situation looks like in the Big 12, and the deal falls apart in approximately 3-5 minutes.
Nobody here would blame them.