You don’t know how you would have reacted, especially when you were an 18-22 year old kid. I’m not sure what the appropriate response is, but I’m 100% certain that victim blaming is not it.
As a member of a band that actually had to deal with fans throwing **** at them, having people attempt to steal uniform parts, etc, i kind of do know.
I'm also pretty sure if someone had attacked a band member enough to send them to the hospital, there'd be a second person joining them in that hospital.