I'm a big Broncos fan and I think both sides are at fault, but the communication between the 2 parties is obviously dysfunctional.
If I'm McDaniels and I get hired as the HC, I really shouldn't have to butter up & reassure anybody b/c I'm now in charge and I was brought in to replace a hall of fame coach for a reason. With that said, it is now my responsibility to make sure my intent & communication are very clear to everyone on the team I inherited, but especially the all-pro QB. I shouldn't have to make excuses for trying to aquire my own QB who know my system, but since that deal fell through, it's now my responsibility to put the best QB on the field for our team next year and that QB is Jay Cutler.
If I'm Cutler, I need to keep an open mind going into a new coaching staff and prove to the new staff that I'm the guy they want on the field evey Sunday and I lead the 2nd rated offense for a reason. Cutler claims to have gotten all of these promises from Bowlen (keep former OC's on staff, etc.) after Shanny was let go, but if you're Cutler, why should you be entitled to promises from the owner of the team in the 1st place? The new HC is an excellent former OC that lead some of the best offenses in NFL history, so quit crying and go out on the field and prove you can lead the team......end of story.
It's obvious that they could have a pretty d*mn good team with a lot of sucess for years to come if they made amends - otherwise nobody would really be talking about this and it wouldn't be such a big issue.
Solution = Showing some respect, swallowing your pride and just playing football.