Friday OT - Sad Songs and Waltzes

I have told my family I don't want a traditional funeral. This summer we attended a traditional Irish wake. It's what I would want. Family and friends can get together, talk, laugh, reminisce and reconnect. It seems like you don't really get the chance to spend time together like that at a funeral. They can play the music I like - which includes just about every genre. Blake Shelton's "Saviors Shadow" is one I would request to be included in the mix.

My Mom has instructed she wants "Happy Trails" by Roy Rogers played at the end of her funeral.
 
I doubt there will be a funeral for me, as there will be no one to arrange or attend.'

But, if something changes and there is one, I only ask that any videos or photos of me be projected and accompanied by Yakity Sax.
 
I was out in Montana a wk or so ago, listened to local small town radio. Lots of Irish wakes and getting buried at the ranch were listed also community center and meet at the bar type stuff.

My BIL is a pretty good organist, maybe get him to play ISU Fights as my roll out song.
I suppose I should put a little more work into the ending not as young as I used to be.
 
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Smoke on the Water for sure :jimlad:
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I think we did this one a few years ago. I've always said I don't want my funeral to be a sad and somber atmosphere I want it to be a celebration of my life. I'm not trying to cave this thread but I am invoking a bit of religion in my explanation here so giving full disclosure on my intent... our life on this planet is only temporary and our ultimate goal is to one day meet our maker and enjoy eternal life in heaven so we should be joyful and celebrate the life of those who pass on because they are now in a better place that we hope to join them some day.

That being said I have 2 hymns on my list that I want for sure at my funeral but already told my family that if something unexpected happens to me I don't want any sad/dull songs played at my funeral so as I get older I'll probably start to think about this more I'm sure.

"How Great Thou Art"
"I Know That My Redeemer Lives" - one of my grandmother's church has a big pipe organ and she specifically requested that they play the last verse "loud and majestic" as she always loved to hear that hymn played on that organ. It was awesome to hear it and gave me chills so it's one I had to add to my list.
 
Like others have said, I hope for a celebration of my life rather than a mourning that I'm gone. I hope they put on a playlist of my favorite songs, have my favorite foods and beverages, and just let everyone share stories about me.
 

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