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I don't think people (including experts) understand food that well at all. There is all this emphasis on what NOT to eat when in reality, food is good for you. Food, in and of itself does not make a person fat.

I could talk about this for hours as I am a major "foodie". I love to eat, cook most of my food from scratch and rate my vacations on based on where the best meals have been eaten. I cook with a lot of butter, cream and bacon as I have boys to feed and since they are in sports it can be very hard to get enough calories in them.

I have several friends that cook like I do. Real meals. Real sit down meals with bread and meat and vegetables. We are all pushing 50 and we are all thin. Of my friends that diet, eat salads and think nachos are dinner, not so much.

Unfortunately, once women gain weight, it can be very difficult to lose. Like someone said, we don't have the muscle mass or the metabolism. My neighbor was clinically obese but still exercised enough that she competed in triathalons. She only lost weight after she had gastric bypass surgery. She said it was very eye opening to realize just how much food she had been consuming before, something she didn't understand until she literally could not eat like she used to.

On a side note, I think more men would "diet" like women do if they were not in denial about how much extra weight they are really carrying.
 
I don't think people (including experts) understand food that well at all. There is all this emphasis on what NOT to eat when in reality, food is good for you. Food, in and of itself does not make a person fat.

I could talk about this for hours as I am a major "foodie". I love to eat, cook most of my food from scratch and rate my vacations on based on where the best meals have been eaten. I cook with a lot of butter, cream and bacon as I have boys to feed and since they are in sports it can be very hard to get enough calories in them.

I have several friends that cook like I do. Real meals. Real sit down meals with bread and meat and vegetables. We are all pushing 50 and we are all thin. Of my friends that diet, eat salads and think nachos are dinner, not so much.

Unfortunately, once women gain weight, it can be very difficult to lose. Like someone said, we don't have the muscle mass or the metabolism. My neighbor was clinically obese but still exercised enough that she competed in triathalons. She only lost weight after she had gastric bypass surgery. She said it was very eye opening to realize just how much food she had been consuming before, something she didn't understand until she literally could not eat like she used to.

On a side note, I think more men would "diet" like women do if they were not in denial about how much extra weight they are really carrying.

Eating real food is the answer to LOTS of our problems...enough that I can't mention them without this thing going straight cave :-)
 
On a side note, I think more men would "diet" like women do if they were not in denial about how much extra weight they are really carrying.

I think that many people, men in particular, will often say, "I've just always been big/stocky."

Well, when you really think about it the reason they have always been that way is because they have always had ****** diet and exercise habits.
 
I always get a kick out of the times someone mentions to me that they can't eat x food anymore. I look at them and say, why not once in awhile? Plan for it.

There are times though you can't. For example I still want to eat healthy food right now, but there are certain foods that don't agree and some junk foods that settle my stomach. I try to balance them even now that I have 'an excuse"

Have other moms been told to eat for their baby? My undergrad student friends would encourage me to eat more than would be healthy.
 
I went to this body pump class with my girlfriend over the weekend. 1 hour long. I'm 20 pounds overweight, and completely out of cardiovascular shape, since I haven't worked out in forever. It was hard for me based on my poor winter shape, but I really didn't sweat much, and I really didn't like the goofy rep schemes. It wasn't like lifting weights and felt more like a fitness trial of endurance. To me its a form of activity, but not the ideal workout if i want to really tear through muscle fibers and calories.

I'd rather get on a treadmill and see how fast I can pound out 2 miles, and then how far I can go in 40 minutes. And definitely prefer rocking through a chest workout in 10 minutes and lifting some moderate to heavy weights. Not some 90 reps BS in 10 minutes that just seems to wear me out so that my form is out the window half way into the exercise and I'm not able to maximize the attack on a particular muscle.
 
I went to this body pump class with my girlfriend over the weekend. 1 hour long. I'm 20 pounds overweight, and completely out of cardiovascular shape, since I haven't worked out in forever. It was hard for me based on my poor winter shape, but I really didn't sweat much, and I really didn't like the goofy rep schemes. It wasn't like lifting weights and felt more like a fitness trial of endurance. To me its a form of activity, but not the ideal workout if i want to really tear through muscle fibers and calories.

I'd rather get on a treadmill and see how fast I can pound out 2 miles, and then how far I can go in 40 minutes. And definitely prefer rocking through a chest workout in 10 minutes and lifting some moderate to heavy weights. Not some 90 reps BS in 10 minutes that just seems to wear me out so that my form is out the window half way into the exercise and I'm not able to maximize the attack on a particular muscle.

When I exercise I have to remind myself, it isn't about length or wearing myself out. It is about consistency and building up. If I wear myself out, I won't go back the next day or next few days.
 
My mom is the same weight she was when she was 20 and my dad is much heavier. My mom and I are essentially vegetarians though and dad is not.
 
So there was that CK underwear commercial on during the superbowl. i saw how fit that guy was and instantly said "**** i better start working out harder - i wanna look like him" yet oftentimes when an attractive females comes on all I hear from my females friends are "oh she's not real" or "that's so superficial". I see beauty and want to emulate it, not demean it.
 
So there was that CK underwear commercial on during the superbowl. i saw how fit that guy was and instantly said "**** i better start working out harder - i wanna look like him" yet oftentimes when an attractive females comes on all I hear from my females friends are "oh she's not real" or "that's so superficial". I see beauty and want to emulate it, not demean it.

That guy grossed me out.
 
From what i can tell, some women dont care to look good, they just want to hear that they look good. Had a girlfriend who told me she was getting fat, i told her to stop drinking pop. Bad choice.
 
I agree with the portion size thing. For a while when my wife and I would share meals, we would cut the meat down the middle, then she realized that i have 50 lbs on her and probably can have a larger portion than her.
 
But do we really want to be with women who don't take care of themselves? I have a buddy with a girlfriend who is nice yet every friday night she drinks a gallon of half and half in her white russians. he told me she has sever backne but doesn't care and says "oh well - at least they taste good". I understand personality is 95% of a relationship but how can you be with someone who doesn't care?
 
But do we really want to be with women who don't take care of themselves? I have a buddy with a girlfriend who is nice yet every friday night she drinks a gallon of half and half in her white russians. he told me she has sever backne but doesn't care and says "oh well - at least they taste good". I understand personality is 95% of a relationship but how can you be with someone who doesn't care?

white russians cause bankne?
 
But do we really want to be with women who don't take care of themselves? I have a buddy with a girlfriend who is nice yet every friday night she drinks a gallon of half and half in her white russians. he told me she has sever backne but doesn't care and says "oh well - at least they taste good". I understand personality is 95% of a relationship but how can you be with someone who doesn't care?

milk causes backne? I thought it does a body good?
 
my wife always complains about her tummy being a little large. i told i am tired of hearing about if and if it bothers either do something about it or stop talking about it. i haven't hear a peep about it sense
 
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people and women are generally lazy. just like i'm not capitalizing words, people don't like to work out. women have been pampered for centuries because of the slit between their legs and the fat on their chests. i don't blame them for being lazy, but don't complain when we don't like what you're selling anymore if you're not willing to fight to keep it's value.
 

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