This is a serious question that I hope will get some serious answers.
How do people actually afford the new houses in Waukee/West Des Moines/etc unless they make a $200k+ as a household. Then have a large SUV, boat, etc? We went to DSM last weekend just to look at houses for fun and all the new one were $380k +
I know the answer is "They make more than you make" or "They have lots of debt" but those aren't really helpful answers. Sometimes it baffles me how many wealthy people there are in Des Moines. We make 2.3x the average Iowa household income (no student loans but 2 kids in daycare) and we feel like we'd have to move to a house under $200k to have any sort of life.
We love the South of Grand/Waveland neighborhoods in DSM but my wife wants that character with a new house. To get a newer house with that character we'd be stuck out in the far-flung suburbs. The area west of Jordan Creek was weird - it seemed very random.
I guess this is all to say that coming from a smaller town we can be involved in lots of community projects and I fear if we lived in a tract house in Waukee/Grimes there really wouldn't be the same type of community feel. Does that make sense?
We do Big Brothers Big Sisters mentoring, fundraising for the several local non-profits, wife is in a position of community leadership for a non-profit etc. I fear in a brand new suburb none of that would exist because everyone is wealthy and "from somewhere else".
/word vomit
I assume people that buy a $380k house do make $200k/year. Like you know, a lot of people are not saving and getting super long car loans. This isn't just happening in the suburbs.
Like you said, you have to give up some things with what ever choice you make.
We moved into a new house 15 years ago in Johnston. I didn't want a fixer upper, I like new, clean, and reliable. I could care less about schmoozing with my neighbors. When one of them is out of town we watch each others house, we snow blow driveways for each other, and that's about it. A couple times a year I have to listen to the neighbor talk about how great Iowa/UNI is and that's enough talk for me. My wife isn't social at all with the neighbors, her friends live in other locations. We pay a couple hundred a year in association fees for up-keep and to make sure no one paints their houses purple or have hawkeye mailboxes. When I work downtown it takes me 20 minutes max to drive 15 miles. I pull my car out of the 3 stall garage and pull into work with covered parking and walk into the skywalk. In 15 years, I've never seen police lights in my neighborhood.
In those 15 years, we've probably spent $25k on the house by adding a home theater, fence, new carpet, and landscaping. In 15 years no leaking basement, no furnace/air issues, no water heater issues, no plumbing issues, etc. Really the only thing I've missed during that time is large established trees.
I've thought about buying a condo downtown but I'd not willing to pay the price they are charging for the limitations of living in a condo.
I like Johnston but if I was looking today I'd still look at Johnston first but would also consider Grimes, Clive, Urbandale, Ankeny and WDM. I have no desire to live in an old house so most of Des Moines would be out of discussion.